(with Andreas Bjerre-Nielsen and Sune Lehmann)
Using a unique dataset covering the entire Danish population (~6 million individuals, 8 million parent–child relations), this study examines how individual behaviors shape the emergent large-scale structure of family networks. Contrary to expectations, partner-choice homophily has only a minor effect. Instead, two key dynamics drive network structure: (1) partner-change behavior acts like ‘shortcuts’ (akin to the small-world model), shortening path lengths and accelerating connectivity, and (2) this behavior is self-exciting—individuals with more prior partners are more likely to change partners further—thus creating highly connected hubs. Including these behaviors in network models accurately reproduces real-world family network properties; models relying on homophily alone do not.